Sex & Intimacy
Erotic Blueprint™ Coaching for individuals and couples, single or partnered, who crave a deeper level of intimacy and pleasure.
Through embodiment exercises and the Erotic Blueprints™ framework, we'll uncover what truly excites you. We'll then navigate boundaries, address past experiences, and empower you to communicate openly. This allows you to expand your sexual repertoire and create a more fulfilling intimate life.
You deserve to feel ahhh-mazing.
I know what it’s like to lose your spark.
Despite a strong foundation built on love, laughter, and teamwork, my marriage, like many others, faced a challenge in the bedroom. Years of routine and emotional baggage dimmed the spark. Societal pressure only added to the burden.
My personal journey of rediscovering intimacy through the Erotic Blueprints™ ignited a passion. Now, I am a sex and intimacy coach. This program isn't about fixing, you are not broken. It’s about sparking curiosity, fostering communication, and reconnecting with pleasure. Together, we'll explore your erotic blueprint to pave the way for a vibrant sex life and deeply fulfilling relationships with yourself and others.
Virtual Coaching for Couples & Individuals
Master the ability to accept, feed, and delight in all facets of life, in the bedroom and beyond, for all relationship styles.
What are the benefits of coaching?
✦ Feel more comfortable and in tune with your body.
✦ Explore healthy ways to touch yourself and discover what brings you (and your partner) pleasure.
✦ Gain the confidence to understand and express your sexual needs and desires clearly.
✦ Develop a positive body image and appreciate your body exactly as it is right now.
✦ Increase self-esteem and confidence by exploring your sexuality in a safe and supportive environment.
What happens in a typical session?
✦ We drop in with embodiment and delight-seeking.
✦ Videos, resources, and goal-specific teaching aids.
✦ Open discussions and inquiry to deepen exploration.
✦ Somatic, experiential practices to develop inner knowing.
✦ Various modalities including breathwork, guided meditation, movement, role-playing, journaling, and more.
You determine the path. I hold a light in the darkness. We’ll find th results you seek together.
✦ Personalized & confidential meetings lasting 60-90 minutes.
✦ Access to a library of curated videos to enhance your learning.
✦ Downloadable workbooks and guides packed with valuable information and hands-on exercises.
✦ Text/call support for quick questions between sessions.
✦ Personalized reading list tailored to your specific goals.
What’s included?
✦ Individual coaching starts at $200/session.
✦ Purchasing a package reduces the cost per session.
✦ Custom packages are tailored to your desires.
What’s the investment?
You’re in the right place if…
✦ You feel bored or disappointed in the hum-drum of daily life.
✦ You’re stuck in a rut in your relationships in and out of the bedroom.
✦ You want sex to go from “Meh” to “Good”, or from “Good” to “Great!”
✦ You’re ready to release shame, surface hidden desires, and step into a full erotic self for vitality between the sheets and beyond.
✦ You’re ready to take ownership of your sex life once and for all!
Frequently Asked Questions
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Absolutely not! You can explore sexuality and expression regardless of your relationship status. This is a powerful opportunity for personal growth, whether single, partnered, or exploring multi-partnered relationships.
You'll deepen awareness of your desires and know how to feed yourself. This journey will empower you to be a more confident, authentic, and giving lover (and partner) in all your relationships.
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You don’t need experience to learn about yourself or others. You only need to be 18 years old and have a desire to know more. This is an excellent opportunity to somatically learn about yourself. You will understand what your body wants and needs as you seek more experience, if desired.
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This work is for YOU. All bodies, all relationships welcome.
While this program can certainly enhance your intimate connections, it's all about self-discovery first and foremost. You'll learn valuable tools and gain a deeper understanding of yourself that will ripple far beyond the bedroom.
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I do not touch clients during these sessions. Generally, sessions are video meetings. This allows you to be in the comfort of your own space as we talk about potentially tender topics. For some exercises, you may choose to remove some clothing. Underwear is required or the camera must be off. If it is a partnered session, I may instruct how clients touch and relate to each other after thorough communication on consent and container building.
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I understand sexual trauma is common, and I want to support your journey towards healing and body confidence.
I'm not a therapist and do not diagnose my clients. I'm trauma-trained and informed. We move at the speed of trust. We go only as fast as the slowest part of you. I ask questions, you make choices.
If needed, I'll recommend therapy to continue. We'll work at a comfortable speed and focus on what feels safe. We might discuss some difficult things, but only when you're ready.
My goal is to empower you and reconnect you to your body. Many survivors find this work helpful.
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I support all individuals in any relationship style and single who are 18+. I want sex to be a free and pleasurable space for all generations.
“Melissa changed my life forever. I finally feel secure with my sexuality. Sex feels good for the first time and I know how to ask for what I desire without shame.”
Amanda
